So basically last night i was on the Xat chat boxes talking to my BF you know. He shal remain namesless. but anyways, in a summery in his words. Told me that we are over and that he has decieded to leave me for someone four years younger than me, Mind you i am 18 and he is 19. Pedifiler much.

Not only did he break up with me but he also had the nerve to tell me never to go back to a certain chat box, that he doesnt want me to spread my 8IT(hiness around, and that i would never be what he wants.

so basically i am in a temporary state of sulking and disapointment. :urk:

Is that the prick you told me about?

That is exactly who i am talking about, That Jerk who i was always there for, and even when he ignored me i would still be there when he needed it.

And Also the one you dislike and call an Emo. Yes.

He is such a Jerk.

I told you so~

As always Onee-chan is right, and i am wrong. Retarded of me to think he actually cared.

That really sucks. Sorry to hear about that.

Of all my relationships (had four of them) I've only had one break-up. Last Summer, towards the end of the school year (It was technically Summer so shush) a guy in the year above me went searching for me on Myspace after seeing me perform at a school concert. After two months of sweet-talking with me, and going out a few times, I agreed to actually date him.

Five days into the relationship, a girl from school messaged me on Myspace to warn me "about your boy Jake." Apparently, he asked her if he broke up with me, would she date him. -_-

Six days into the relationship, I'm spending the night at a friend's and she gets a text. It's him saying he doesn't think it's working out between us and asking if she could please let me know that it's over.

Not only did he not have the guts to say it to my face, but he didn't even ask her to hand me the phone! God. I haven't spoken to him since, but I was so proud. A couple of months later, he caught up with another friend and asked, "Does everyone hate me because of what I did to Stacha?" and she replied, very sweetly, "Well, I don't know about everyone else but I definitely do." Oh! When she told me that, I hugged her. =D And I don't hug, so it was like...A big deal and stuff. :yougotme:

But yeah. It's because of guys like Jake I'm really cautious about dating. I've gotten really burned from them in every one that I've had. It took me a year to agree to go out with another guy. But it didn't work out. He was one of my closest friends and now he won't even talk to me. >.> Relationships just ruin everything...

They sure do.

Some guys are just Jerks who hide their feelings until its too late. it sucks to know that there are a couple of really good guys, but will probably end up getting hurt before we will ever get to know them.

Lame about that Friend thing by the way. had he really been that great of a friend he would be happy just being a part of your life.

Fixed that for you.

Nah, he's one of my best guy friends...And most of my friends are guy friends. He's just spazzing out right now. First day of school he was all hugging me and laughing. Now I see him in the halls and I go, "Hey Mikey." just like I always do and he gets this weird look on his face and keeps walking. I'm told he still likes me, but Mikey was never one to dwell on relationships and we broke up a month ago. He's making me feel terrible. :rage:

Thanks onee-chan i would agree.

As for your friend, maybe you and he can still be friends. you never know.i guess this is just my Retarded way of Sulking.Notice how no Guys are to be seen here?

i mean seriously.

I don't know what you're talking about. =p

Okay, that was my whole point for this post. As a representative for the guys here, I don't really like going into other people's life problems, being their love life especially. It seems like a sensitive issue, more or less to some.

And I'm mostly afraid by pushing someone's button in the process, which is mainly why I stay away from other people's issues.

If you were expecting helpful advice in this post, disregard it completely....except this sentence of course.

Eh, I figured this entire topic was just supposed to be about break-ups in general. Bad ones, if you note the topic description. =P So guys are welcome. XD

Not all guys are bad....
You girls need to pick your men better....
*Hides for cover*

But whatever little love life I have is practically non-existent. D:

I choose to have good friendships that last through out my school life with girls, rather than enjoy a one month fling.

:onethumbup: Good thought, But :thumbsdown: Bad idea.

Also, I was not here for advice, had i wanted it then i would have asked. this was for people to share their "experiences" something that we all could have Related to.

And for your Disreagard.it is forgiven.

Also, Point me in the right direction of a Man that would be the best, and i would understand Completely. :urk:

So do I. I don't enter a relationship unless I think it'll last for a while. I was in one for over a year, but ever since then all of my guys have been flops. First there was the guy who hardly achknowledged that we were dating except for sitting next to me at lunch. Then there was the loser I already talked about. And then my most recent. We never talked or hung out and it just wasn't good.

I thought all of those were going to be long term. I think me and the last guy lasted the longest after my year-long. I think we were together for three months or so.

It's seriously a shame. How was the relationship that lasted for a year though? It surprises me that it can actually last that long. o.o

Same with you, I'll only actually enter a relationship if it seems as if it will last for at the very least several months. Which seems almost, if not, impossible to me.

It was great. It was long distance, which was eventually why we broke up. But we hujng out this Summer; we're still really close friends. He's my best guy friend, by far. We've been broken up for more than a year now, but I still really care for him, and I'd love to go out with him again. I really do love him, but it's just not there for him anymore. He's with another girl, and is really happy, which is good. :smile:

Ah, even though the relationship didn't work, at least you two are still close friends.

Its not that hard to have one that actually lasts. one of my lasts was for about 16 months. but it ended. Pathetically. Apparently i wasn't the type of "Flavor" anymore. Bye the way, there was no Sexual Contact if thats what you were thinking.

Maybe thats why huh? Oh well, he wasn't that Awesome towards the end anyways...

Sexual contact is what most men are always looking for when they get a girlfriend. I'm not one of those guys.

I went out with a close friend once and we had lots of fun together. Around the end of the school year, she broke up with me not giving me a reason besides, "It's for the best." -_- Once in a while now, I bring it up and she gets mad at me and walks away.

*Sigh* Never going to find out. :/

i am indeed terribly sorry for what happened. men are indeed naturally inclined to become assholes when they are around women. i dont know why.

but in response to a bunch of other posts, my relationships (however few) have all been with girls ive known for a long time and been good friends with, and they all crashed and burned in less than a month. most of the girls aren't even my friends anymore because of the whole ordeal. it really messes up friendships. i think i just have a terrible judgement of whether a girl likes me or is simply being nice. women just confuse the hell out of me. i hate them. sometimes.

i think high school dating is pretty overrated, in general. maybe thats just me being bitter, but it doesnt seem to be all that its cracked up to be.

I can't help but agree and somewhat relate to this post.

I don't want to bother with relationships when it comes to good friends because I don't want to screw up what can be a long lasting friendship. As long as I just enjoy being around them, I can't ask of nothing more.

Ugh, I'm also inept to "signals" girls give. Same as you, I can't tell if they like me, or they're just being nice to me. So damn confusing...

It's funny. I would only get with a girl I've known for a while. The thing is, When I do get to know her I become scared of ruining a friendship. I dunno why, that's just how I am. Not only that, there's not that many girls that I think can put up with my dorkyness. I become too random and stuff. I can be serious but for me it's either be too serious or too immature. Haha, Completly different personalities.

Oh well, I'm in college now. Hopefully I'll find someone.


But yeah, As for the threadstarter, If a guy says stuff like that to you then don't even bother with him. They aren't even worth talking to.

Ehh i'm only young, I like girls but none are just really that, i've had a few but they were just meh. Most of them wern't very chattery or anything. You girls can be asses too you know. Like I did have one which was good but she double timed me, so I pushed her boy friend in the pool. But anyway you shoud't date till you have someone right, who you love, don't go out with people just for laughs or popularity, and love them for their personality. Sure a pretty face is great but whats inside counts, and even pretty girls can be very nice inside. What you should do is consider before getting together, is she/he nice to talk to, does he/she care about you, do you care about them? Put their feelings before your happiness.

Most of the gals will read that, the guys will probably laugh or suttin, well that shows your what kind of person you are if you laugh.

Figures this would happen, Fyi for anyone who cares. he asked me Back. i Willingly Turned him down, i am sorry i would prefer not to be a "toy" to some pathetic Jerk.No offense to any of the good guys. Just saying.

And also by the way, a Real good guy would know what a "pretty face looks like"

Also, if i may add, if you stopped and considered, Hey, Girls aren't different from me at all really , we are both humans, you would Probably think of a Way not to "Misread signals" Because, i bet all Girls here would agree, that we tend to make it EXTREAMLY obvious on how we feel about you. some people are just Naturally naive to what "we" think. One thing i Blame is ####. :urk:

Onee-chan, thanks for the Good advice also, i should have just listened to you in the first place. i don't know why i thought there would be any hope at all if any. :cry:
guess we never get what we want in the end anyways, someone just to hold you and tell you that you are important. People Never Learn.

You shoud've asked out his bezzy right after to make him jealous.

Nah i'm kiddin, you shoudn't use people, it was good you turned him down.

Sure as hell didn't feel good, God knows i wanted to say yes. And if people are weak enough to be used, Why Not?